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The best-selling BDSM item at Intimico right now is the G2 Nipple Clamps by NS Novelties: adjustable and with soft silicone tips. The Spectra Bondage Whip is the finest flogger to start with, and the Electro Shock Cane is the pick for experienced players who want to deepen their play.

Intimico's adviceNot sure which one you need? Read our buying guide: BDSM & Bondage Starter Kit: Safe Beginners Guide (Buying Guide)

Our editors' top 3

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Bestseller: G2 Nipple Clamps

NS Novelties

The most ordered BDSM toy in our range, and a perfect first step: these clamps by NS Novelties are infinitely adjustable, so you set the pressure exactly as light or firm as feels good. The silicone tips protect the skin and the metal is nickel-free. Small, affordable and surprisingly effective.

€26.95€13.48
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Finest flogger: Spectra Bondage Whip

NS Novelties

This flogger by NS Novelties has soft PU-leather falls and sturdy iron hardware, with a manageable length of almost 50 cm. The wide falls make an impressive sound but land gently: exactly what you want when you start exploring sensation play together. It also looks great as a first piece on the bedroom wall.

€22.94
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For experienced players: Electro Shock Cane

Hidden Desire

The Electro Shock Cane by Hidden Desire combines a flexible PU-leather paddle with a subtle electro element in the tip: taps and tingles in one toy. For experienced players who want to combine dominance with precision. Read the manual, start on the lowest setting and build up slowly together.

€62.95
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How we build this top 10

This list is based on real sales data: we look at which BDSM items our customers order most often and only show products that are in stock right now. The top 3 is fixed and explained by our editorial team, so you know exactly why a product ranks where it does. The positions below it move automatically with sales. We review the editorial picks every quarter.

Starting BDSM safely and enjoyably

BDSM is about trust, not about pain. Agree together beforehand what is and is not allowed, and choose a safeword that always applies. Start with light sensations: a blindfold, a feather or loose clamps teach you more about each other's limits than heavy gear. Build intensity slowly, check in with each other regularly and take time for each other afterwards (aftercare). Avoid the neck, spine and joints during impact play, and never leave someone who is tied up alone.

Frequently asked questions about BDSM

Based on our sales data, that is currently the G2 Nipple Clamps by NS Novelties. The list refreshes automatically, so the order can shift from week to week.

Start light: adjustable nipple clamps, a blindfold or a soft flogger. Adjustable is the key word, so you can build up the intensity together at your own pace.

That is up to you: adjustable models such as the G2 start at a light pressure that teases rather than hurts. The sensitive moment is mainly taking them off, when the blood flows back; do that slowly.

Agree on boundaries beforehand, choose a safeword that always applies, build up slowly and check in with each other regularly. Never leave someone who is tied up alone, and take time for aftercare when you are done.

Yes. Every order ships in neutral packaging without product names or logos, so nobody can tell what is inside.

This is general information, not medical advice. If you have symptoms or any doubt (pain, irritation, recurring infections, pregnancy), consult a doctor, midwife or sexologist.